Munch FAQ

A munch is a casual social gathering for people of similar interests, held in public places such as restaurants. The purpose is to meet new people, make new friends, and talk about things with other like-minded folks.

What happens at a munch?

It's very simple -- we just gather at a restaurant or similar place and share conversation while eating or drinking. That's it! Munches are always held in public places, so they aren't place to "play."

Why does ABU Japan host Munches?

ABU Japan is dedicated to supporting and growing the ABDL community in Japan by providing places where people can gather and make new friends in a safe, understanding environment. A munch is a casual, laid-back alternative for folks who like diapers, but  may not be comfortable at official SM or fetish events.

Please sign up for our mailing list and watch our social media for information about munches.

Munch rules and guidelines

  • Anyone over the age of 20 can participate.
  • Participant safety is our number one priority. Please exercise common sense about activities and safety at the event.
  • Please read this page carefully, and participate only if you fully understand the concept and purpose.
  • The organizer reserves the right to deny entry to anyone who acts in a manner that disrupts or unsettles to the venue or the other participants.


Is there a participation fee?
There is no participation fee. Only actual expenses such as meal charges at restaurants will be charged.

Where is the event held?
Generally speaking the Tokyo area.

When will it be held?
Munches will be held on Saturdays or Sundays.

If I subscribe to the munch mailing list, do I have to join the munch?
No. The mailing list is for sharing munch information. Signing up itself is not a commitment to participate.

Will my privacy be protected?
All you need to submit in order to participate is an email address. We will not ask for any other personal information. Also, all forms of photography are prohibited.

Is it ok to wear diapers to the munch?
Can I change my diapers at the munch?
Can I exchange contact information with other participants?... Etc.

We don't want to limit personal freedoms, so all we ask is that people use common sense and mind their manners. That being said, diapers should not be exposed or revealed in public. Please be considerate and carry any garbage you create with you. And please refrain from asking of real names or other contact information of other participants.

If you have read this far and still are not clear about basic common sense etiquette for munches, we kindly ask that you refrain from participating.

For any other questions, please contact us at

How to sign up for mailing list

Please send an email from the email address you wish to register to with the subject line "Mailing list registration request". We will email an invitation to join our mailing list.